Once I realised this, I stopped making resolutions. But this year, I tentatively stuck my foot in the waters of the New Year’s resolution once again. My resolutions aren’t vows. They’re not promises. In fact, they’re not really resolutions (I don’t have enough confidence in myself for that!). They’re prayerful commitments, shaped by the Bible: a description of the life I want to live as a woman who’s received God’s grace (Titus 2:3-5, 11-14; 1 Tim 5:10).
Here are my eight resolutions – my statement of purpose for the new year.
- To keep Jesus at the centre. To seek his glory instead of my own, to receive his grace instead of wallowing in my guilt, to trust in his greatness instead of being overcome by anxiety, and to rejoice in his goodness instead of giving in to self-pity.2 To keep my eyes fixed on Jesus so I don’t grow weary in doing good (Hebrews 12:1-3 NIV).
- To invest time in keeping my eyes fixed on Jesus. To give the first part of my day to God’s word and prayer, even when I really need to get something else done. To read more faith-encouraging books than faith-destroying books. To have a go at memorizing a book of the Bible.3
- To put my primary responsibilities first. To love, help and care for my husband. To love, teach and train my children, especially my daughter, showing her what it means to be a woman of God. To be faithful and purposeful in caring for our parents. To care for our home, not giving in to laziness or neglect.
- To serve my brothers and sisters in Christ. To love and encourage younger women without worrying about what they think of me. To think less about whether our church serves my needs and more about how I can serve others and help them grow. To give time to the Christian friends and prayer partners that God has given me.
- To do good in our community. To chat about Jesus every chance I get, with gentleness, honesty and courage, trusting God to work in people’s hearts. To love, not counting the cost. To engage in people’s lives, not retreat. To keep an open home.
- To be prayerful, loving and brave in my writing and speaking, using them to glorify Jesus and encourage others. To make sure that online life – blogs, Facebook, Twitter, emails – don’t steal time that belongs to face-to-face relationships. To treat these things as a useful servant, not a master.
- To care for my body and health so I can serve Jesus more energetically. To trust God in times when my health, or my family’s health, gives way.
- To look to God’s grace, because I know that all of these things are beyond me.
I’d love to hear some of your resolutions – at least those that are suitable for public ears and encouraging to others!